diff --git a/assets/images/overthinking.jpg b/assets/images/overthinking.jpg new file mode 100644 index 0000000..de7b6ff Binary files /dev/null and b/assets/images/overthinking.jpg differ diff --git a/content/shorts/2024-03-26-overthinking.md b/content/shorts/2024-03-26-overthinking.md new file mode 100644 index 0000000..0296c38 --- /dev/null +++ b/content/shorts/2024-03-26-overthinking.md @@ -0,0 +1,18 @@ +--- +title: Overthinking +date: 2024-03-26 +slug: overthinking +caption: Photo by Stormseeker on Unsplash + +image: overthinking.jpg +images: + - images/overthinking.jpg +--- + +There are a few things in life that I am good at. Out of all of them, I’m the best at overthinking. Despite never even wanting to do it, I have become a master. With my unintentionally dutiful training, I have become the best at the thing I want to do the least. + +Through analyzing my personality over the years, I became more aware of how often I overthink the most mundane situations. From interactions with my friends, texting my girlfriend, or working in group projects, I’ve always had a persistent tendency to imagine that I have somehow been perceived in a bad light. It’s not that I worry that things I said were taken the wrong way, I also begin to regret saying the things I did. It’s a constant cycle of worry where I believe I’ve done something that would make people like me less. + +These thoughts are typically baseless, too. I’ve been told if I didn’t really do anything, I have nothing to worry about. But, staring at that unread message never fails to make me wonder what I could have possibly done wrong. It makes me find scrutiny in the simplest of actions. I won’t say it’s completely bad, either. It makes me reflect on what I’ve done and allows me to understand myself better. No doubt I am able to navigate more sensitive situations with more care and attention. But more often than not, it’s self destructive. It makes me question my relationships, my self confidence, and my capabilities. Hypothetical situations can ruin my mood and cause me to mentally spiral despite not being a reality. I will these doomsday into existence by allowing them to affect me. + +I become too careful at times, where I hide my thoughts and actions under a veil of uncertainty and fear of judgement. It prevents me from opening up or following my own values and principles. It makes me unable to be honest with myself in the moment. I’ve realized that it likely isn’t something I can fix or should fix. My neurotic tendencies make me the person that I am. Becoming more stoic carefree person would really change parts of me that I don’t think should change. And even if I wanted to, I feel like there’s a ceiling to how much I can change my heart. However, there’s clearly room to grow. I should find the confidence to not be completely consumed by overthinking. Ideally, it could just be a lens to guide me through situations without melting me down. Then, I could harness just the positive aspects of something I consider negative, which could help me embrace my weaknesses. Or maybe, this is just me overthinking. \ No newline at end of file diff --git a/resources/_gen/images/overthinking_hu5459c0360c2b0cb7a147d2df0eb350ca_1612585_600x0_resize_q75_box.jpg b/resources/_gen/images/overthinking_hu5459c0360c2b0cb7a147d2df0eb350ca_1612585_600x0_resize_q75_box.jpg new file mode 100644 index 0000000..2c6c94c Binary files /dev/null and b/resources/_gen/images/overthinking_hu5459c0360c2b0cb7a147d2df0eb350ca_1612585_600x0_resize_q75_box.jpg differ diff --git a/resources/_gen/images/overthinking_hue140734bf6e74088d7324f468fd51f6e_1135295_600x0_resize_q75_box.jpg b/resources/_gen/images/overthinking_hue140734bf6e74088d7324f468fd51f6e_1135295_600x0_resize_q75_box.jpg new file mode 100644 index 0000000..4409825 Binary files /dev/null and b/resources/_gen/images/overthinking_hue140734bf6e74088d7324f468fd51f6e_1135295_600x0_resize_q75_box.jpg differ