[FEA] Standardized code building information in contriubting

[raybellwaves]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Raised rapidsai/cudf#15395 and @vyasr thought it could be discussed at a RAPIDS level. I thought it would create an issue here.

Describe the solution you'd like
The contributing page has a section on building code using https://github.com/rapidsai/devcontainers

Describe alternatives you've considered
If there are differences between the libraries the contributing page you could have a table that has each project in a row and a link to it's contributing page.

Additional context
See above.