feat: update dependencies and tooling

[Julusian]

This is a pretty large set of changes which tackles the following:

• update to yarn 4, and latest lerna
• update most dependencies
• update electron to 32 (current latest), and matching nodejs 20 for dev
• remove @sofie-automation/code-standard-preset. This is because it is a bit stuck with old versions of everything, in particular is uses and old version of typescript-eslint that doesnt work with typescript newer than 5.1 (5.2 was released ~august 2023).
• Convert everything to be ESM instead of commonjs. A few dependencies had issues with this (see the yarn patches), but most was fine, this allows for the next point
• Replace webpack with vite

My primary testing has been both dev and packaged builds on linux, and it appears to be happy in both flows.
The built binaries need some additional testing on windows and macos, in particular checking that the ci produced macos builds run on both intel and arm.

If anyone wants to review this, I would suggest skimming each commit in turn. In particular the ones which convert things to esm are large, but mostly just change imports

[nytamin]

What's up with the patches? Just esm-module fixes?
Should we PR the changes to the upstream modules as well?

[Julusian]

The sorensen one should be upstreamed, and is an esm fix.
The formik one is an incompatibility with updated react types, probably will go away when updating formik, but I didn't want to do a major bump of that yet.
The react-toggle ones are esm fixes, but upstream hasnt had a commit in 2 years, so I suspect trying to upstream it won't get anywhere.

[nytamin]

I've looked through the commits up to this point, looks good!

[Julusian]

There is an issue with the sorensen library not loading in the builds, but ci produced builds do launch on windows and linux. macos is being stubborn, because of changes of the notarization flow. hopefully this will be resolved once a new secret is added

[sonarcloud]

Quality Gate passed

Issues
66 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
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0.0% Coverage on New Code
2.8% Duplication on New Code

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