Add GraalVM Reachability Metadata and corresponding nativeTest for Zookeeper integration

[linghengqian]

For #29052.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Add GraalVM Reachability Metadata and corresponding nativeTest for Zookeeper integration.
• The destruction of the Docker Image created by MySQLTest and OpenGaussTest is required to ensure normal execution of unit tests. This PR uses testcontainers-java to ensure that even if nativeTest fails, the corresponding containers can be forcibly destroyed.
• org.apache.shardingsphere.test.natived.** should be excluded in advance in User Code Filter instead of being deferred to Extra Filter processing. This reduces the effort of manually processing JSON. This makes the JSON file change dramatically in this PR.

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