Force the use of libssl and libcrypto instead of libmd.

Update to CUDA 12.4.0:
  * CUDA runtime version 12.4.99
  * NVIDIA drivers version 550.54.14

See https://docs.nvidia.com/cuda/archive/12.4.0/cuda-toolkit-release-notes/index.html
for the full CUDA 12.4.0 release notes and change log.

Works around a problem in the GCC version checks inside cudafe++,
where GCC 12.3.1 is not recognised as equivalent to GCC 12.3.0.

Rename the CUDA-related flags to avoid potential problems when adding,
removing or reordering them.

Changes in v2.4.1:
  - add support for persistent mapping
  - fix bug in src/gdrdrv/Makefile
  - fix compile-time bug when check.h is not found

Changes in v2.4:
  - various bug fixes in the test and benchmark applications
  - prefix all applications with "gdrcopy_"
  - introduce more unit tests in gdrcopy_sanity
  - introduce gdrcopy_pplat benchmark application
  - remove dependency on libcheck and libsubunit
  - introduce gdr_get_info_v2
  - introduce new copy algorithm for device mappings
  - add support for NVIDIA BLUEFIELD-3
  - add support for Linux kernel >= 6.3
  - add support for SLES and OpenSUSE
  - add support for systemd service on RHEL9
  - relicense gdrdrv to Dual MIT/GPL
  - fix bugs in gdrdrv when pinning two small buffers back-to-back
  - add support for coherent platforms such as Grace-Hopper
  - add support for Confidential Computing (CC)

See https://docs.nvidia.com/deeplearning/cudnn/archives/cudnn-897/release-notes/index.html
for the release notes and change log.

This version requires two more workarounds:
  - -Wno-error=maybe-uninitialized is needed to a void a (hopefully
    false positive) warning about a potentially uninitialised variable
    with cuDNN 8.9 and 9.0
  - -Donnxruntime_NVCC_THREADS=0 is needed because the default is ON,
    causing nvcc to be called as "nvcc ... --threads ON ...", which
    causes an error.

Update to CUDA 12.4.1:
  * CUDA runtime version 12.4.127
  * NVIDIA drivers version 550.54.15

See https://docs.nvidia.com/cuda/archive/12.4.1/cuda-toolkit-release-notes/index.html
for the full CUDA 12.4.1 release notes and change log.