Make SYCL backend detection more portable #10828

Job	Run time
codespell	14s
documentation	20s
clang-format	11s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	4m 8s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,macos-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	4m 5s
FPGA_EMU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	4m 56s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icx-cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	17m 46s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 12s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=cl,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	16m 43s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	9m 25s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icx,windows-latest,std=c++17,cfg=release	4m 41s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	6m 1s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 51s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 46s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	10m 55s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	8m 12s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=clang++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	10m 54s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	11m 30s
HOST,bknd=serial,cmplr=g++,ubuntu-latest,std=с++17,cfg=release	4m 49s
CPU,bknd=dpcpp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	7m 35s
HOST,bknd=tbb,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	14m 10s
HOST,bknd=omp,cmplr=icpx,ubuntu-latest,std=с++20,cfg=release	12m 55s
	2h 58m 19s

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