fix: attempt to fix some of the Filter issues

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Problem

This PR attempts to address some of the issues we experience with Filter.

Solution

Fixes:

• Ensure frequent pings are sent;
• Turn off flaky renewal logic of missing messages on Filter;
• others

Notes

• Related to bug: reliability monitor renews working peers from Filter or does not renew not working peer #2158

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size-limit report 📦

Path	Size	Loading time (3g)	Running time (snapdragon)	Total time
Waku node	85.83 KB (+0.38% 🔺)	1.8 s (+0.38% 🔺)	1.8 s (+6.89% 🔺)	3.5 s
Waku Simple Light Node	137.62 KB (+0.38% 🔺)	2.8 s (+0.38% 🔺)	3.5 s (+119.56% 🔺)	6.3 s
ECIES encryption	22.88 KB (0%)	458 ms (0%)	803 ms (-3.53% 🔽)	1.3 s
Symmetric encryption	22.37 KB (0%)	448 ms (0%)	353 ms (-47.23% 🔽)	800 ms
DNS discovery	72.9 KB (0%)	1.5 s (0%)	1.6 s (-17.76% 🔽)	3 s
Peer Exchange discovery	74.1 KB (0%)	1.5 s (0%)	1.2 s (+8.7% 🔺)	2.7 s
Local Peer Cache Discovery	68.03 KB (0%)	1.4 s (0%)	1.3 s (-16.53% 🔽)	2.6 s
Privacy preserving protocols	76.02 KB (0%)	1.6 s (0%)	1.7 s (-14.82% 🔽)	3.2 s
Waku Filter	80.3 KB (+0.95% 🔺)	1.7 s (+0.95% 🔺)	2.3 s (+19.34% 🔺)	3.9 s
Waku LightPush	75.03 KB (0%)	1.6 s (0%)	1.8 s (+20.59% 🔺)	3.3 s
History retrieval protocols	77.03 KB (0%)	1.6 s (0%)	1.8 s (+10.28% 🔺)	3.4 s
Deterministic Message Hashing	7.39 KB (0%)	148 ms (0%)	331 ms (-28.95% 🔽)	479 ms