ci: disable wasm. add lto for apple #376

Job	Run time
RaspberryPiLegacy_clang (lite)	5m 39s
Wasm	0s
Apple (default, macOS)	14m 25s
Apple (lite, macOS)	10m 30s
LAVFilters	0s
VS2022 (lite, windows-desktop)	41m 9s
Apple (lite, iOS)	6m 22s
VS2022LTL (lite, windows-desktop)	28m 31s
Apple (lite, iOSSimulator)	7m 42s
Apple (lite, macCatalyst)	8m 39s
Windows_clang (lite, windows-desktop)	11m 42s
Apple (lite-lto, macOS)	13m 53s
Android (default)	18m 34s
Apple (lite-lto, iOS)	6m 40s
Android (lite)	7m 21s
Apple (lite-lto, iOSSimulator)	10m 47s
Android (lite-lto)	11m 24s
Linux_clang (default)	16m 38s
Apple (lite-lto, macCatalyst)	13m 4s
Linux_clang (lite)	10m 47s
VCRT120_clang (lite)	9m 57s
Linux_clang (lite-lto)	16m 42s
Upload	2s
	4h 30m 28s

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