Update library to serve building GraalVM Native Image

[linghengqian]

For #21347.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Introduce junit-vintage-engine to support unit testing inside GraalVM Native Image. Reference Support JUnit 4 via the VintageTestEngine graalvm/native-build-tools#53 .
• Update netty to 4.1.84 to get the new automatically generate native-image conditional metadata for ChannelHandler implementations. See Automatically generate native-image conditional metadata for ChannelHandler implementations. netty/netty#12794 .
• Update logback to match graalvm reachability metadata at https://github.com/oracle/graalvm-reachability-metadata/tree/master/metadata/ch.qos.logback/logback-classic/1.2.11 .
• Update maven-surefire-plugin to milestone version to automatically handle use of org.junit.platform:junit-platform-launcher. Reference https://graalvm.github.io/native-build-tools/latest/maven-plugin.html#testing-support-version-compatibility .
• Update mockito and byte-buddy to be in sync with the latest Junit Platform requirements as much as possible.
• Update most of the dependencies to get https://github.com/oracle/graalvm-reachability-metadata support faster in the future. The exception is hikaricp, it has some breaking changes from 3.4.2 to 4.0.3. I'll continue to see how it should be handled at Make ShardingSphere Proxy in GraalVM Native Image form available #21347 .
• Handle most deprecated methods.
• Update LICENSE.

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[linghengqian]

• I noticed that Groovy 4.0.6 released yesterday fixes https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/GROOVY-10757 , which is the same as --report-unsupported-elements-at-runtime of GraalVM Native Build Tools' log displayed by the parameter has a certain relationship.
• This PR might help to validate INLINE script cannot handle int64 id as expected #21475 , since that issue is using something like groovy web console.
• So I submitted a new commit, the PR is still available for review.

[linghengqian]

• I have a local PR with the Conditional Agent Mode of GraalVM Native Build Tools, and its content is strongly related to the dependency version number. I am not sure if I should merge the content of these two PRs, or make another draft PR for review ? 🧐
• Or should I upgrade HikariCP's version number dependency in this PR and fix the problem caused by its breaking changes, and separate the HikariCP version used by distribution/proxy and distribution/proxy-native? It sounds like the first thing that needs to be added in a separate PR or this PR is what is requested by Make ShardingSphere Proxy in GraalVM Native Image form available #21347 (comment) .

[terrymanu]

• I have a local PR with the Conditional Agent Mode of GraalVM Native Build Tools, and its content is strongly related to the dependency version number. I am not sure if I should merge the content of these two PRs, or make another draft PR for review ? 🧐
• Or should I upgrade HikariCP's version number dependency in this PR and fix the problem caused by its breaking changes, and separate the HikariCP version used by distribution/proxy and distribution/proxy-native? It sounds like the first thing that needs to be added in a separate PR or this PR is what is requested by Make ShardingSphere Proxy in GraalVM Native Image form available #21347 (comment) .

Great, I will review soon